I do not think she's asking anything that she shouldn't be entitled to, as a grandmother.
In our country grandparents can sue for visitation, and other arrangements. And now that Dannielynn's mother died, the baby will need a permanent female presence (who is not her nanny.)
I think Virgie should be allowed to take custody of the baby if something were to happen to Larry. The way things have been this past year, close blood-relatives of Dannielynn have been dying like flies. So, a document of guardianship in case of Larry's demise is a must. Who else should the baby go to?
About suing Stern, she should be in her own right. Her daughter and grandson died while in the company of the dude and he should bare some responsibility for their deaths. After all, the medicines which caused their deaths were most likely supplied by Stern, since his name was in the prescription bottles.
The only unreasonable thing she's asking is for the dual asset control.
If I were Larry, I would immediately hire an HONEST attorney (if there is such thing) and revise the will... and get out of the shadow of the Stern curse.
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