Hi 4paynefulls, So sorry to hear you are having the same problem. My son is 10 now and he is still climbing into bed with me. I'm truly getting worried this will harm him psychologically down the road. My husband now sleeps on the couch!!! He refuses to help--says it's my job to forbid him to come in. Problem is, he defies me and/or comes in when I'm asleep and I don't discover him until morning. I was wondering if you have found a cure yet and how you did it. Thanks.