Thanks for the comment,
There are a few things that you first must understand.
1. I took a job in Virginia because the company put in their offer letter "We will provide housing for you until your current house sells". Well, needless to say, they did not come through on that promise and put me in a bad situation.
2. The housing market in Michigan was dropping fast, lay-offs, outsourcing and a sea of foreclosure makes it difficult to sell a house.
3. The bank now has the house now listed for 45% less than I had it listed and still cannot sell it. Only they can make that decision so how could I be expected to sell it for more.
4. No showings = No sale.
The help I needed was in pricing the house to sell, lowering my payment so I could try to afford two households or just plain understanding. The second mortgage offered a "short pay" but would not give me any information as to how much. The first mortgage just plain wouldn’t talk to me, when I mentioned "short pay" they wanted an offer that was not there, unless I dropped the price.
No matter how self righteous people are about "you signed the paper" there are times when people need help. Now, instead of helping me and getting SOME money the bank is stuck!!! Again, the declining market was caused by other peoples poor decisions, many of those people were the banks who had NO BUSINESS funding the loans they did. This put the entire housing market at risk for collapse and I have zero sympathy for them; expecially since I recieved none. Many of those people made ridiculous amounts of money on the deals, except me of course.
P.S. - I have not yet bought a house; however, it is impossible for me to maintain two households on our income.