Perhaps you could have a medical condition such as postpartum thyroditis. It is very common and can cause later onset symptoms such as you describe - both physical and psychological. In postpartum thyroditis, you can shift between hyper and hypothyroidism.
I actually have hyperthyroidism, which onset after my second son. The symptoms were rapid heart rate, weight loss, anxiety, irritability, fatigue, increased appetite, night sweats, and frequent bm's. After I was referred to the endocrinologist, he said a patient was diagnosed after being admitted to the psych section of the hospital and was totally normal after treatment.