Hello...So, i'll just come right out...I'm recently with this man that I care about and have for a while. However, I still am having problems getting over my x fully. We were together for only 3 years but he happened to be my first and it seems to be the hardest thing for me to get over him. It has been about a year now and it is the worst feeling to wake up to each morning knowing that I cant get the thought, idea, memories, out of my head. Mean while the guy I'm with now, I care for him so much but this problem that has been occurring is affecting our sex life and making me not enjoy it as much....Do you have any advice?Can you help me?