I would like to know when it is truly over.......I have been divorced for a year but just actually left 3 months ago. He still wants me to come home but I am trying to move on and have a new boyfriend. I know that I will still feel for him some kind of love because he is the father of my children, but I'm not sure I've had any closure. Or maybe I did? My new boyfriend is amazing and I love him very much. I don't want to hurt him and I wanna make sure that I know that its over between my ex- and I. So what do you think? I don't want my ex- anymore, so what do I do to have closure, if I haven't already?

I would say tie up all loose ends. Whatever you need to get off your chest, talk to him about it and be done with it. Everyone knows it's hard to move on but you clearly are on your way. Don't depend on him for anything that's for sure. Be the independent woman you should be! Yes, he is the father of your children which is a great blessing for both of you. Don't take that from him (unless there is an abusive relationship or something along those lines, clearly.). He is what he is at this point. You have a new boyfriend who you claim to really love... so go with that and cherish your past as memories. You could always talk it out with a therapist but honestly I think you just may need a good reflection period....what is it that YOU really want? Who do YOU really want? It's all about YOU in the end.... think about it.