My 21 year old son died on March 4, 2007. I think that I have had dreams since he died but not sure. I want him to visit me in my dreams very bad. I have asked and asked him to. I'm afraid that if he has I wake up and can't rememer. Is there anything that I can do to remember my dreams and dream about my son?
I apologize for your loss. It has to be devastating to loose a child - while he/she is in the prime of their life. What has to be harder is that you didn't not have proper time to say good-bye to him.
I don't think that you should feel anxiety about not remembering your dreams. It is true - dreams are a function of our subconscious - and - there are certain dreams we do not have the ability to recall. But because your heart longs to communicate with your son - if you dreamt about him - I am sure you would recall it (as it would be the desire of your heart).
Also - I want to share something with you - and I ask - that you please refrain - if at all possible - from offense.
Your son is in eternity. He has no ability to communicate with you. There are people who say that they have the gift of operating as a 'medium' bridging the gap between the living and the dead - but in fact - they are not. The spiritualist are actually communicating with spirits - in torrment - that lack rest - which disguise themselves as 'familiar' images.