Thanks for doing this, Tory. You've got great insight to share. Any special advice for former career women-turned-trailing spouse/fulltime moms? As a former journalist, freelancing has allowed me to keep my resume halfway current, but often editors and other employers want someone with recent fulltime experience. On the up side, following the spouse who makes the money from market to market makes for a comfortable lifestyle, but career-wise, it makes a resume look spotty.