Hello!
My husband & I met online years ago. We lived over 15,000 miles away, & kept an on-going relationship for 2 1/2 years. The more trips we took to see each other, the harder our long distance relationship became, with heart-wrenching 'Good-Bye's' at the airport. If you are both very sure about each other, GO FOR IT!...MAKE THE MOVE!!! The truth of the matter is, a job is a job, & IS VERY replaceable. People ARE NOT. I'd rather take a 'lesser' job, then ever be without the man I love. You both are so lucky to have found each other. Good Luck in your decision.
Lucy