Within the last month, my husband has had 3 nightmares about me. In the first, I left him for another man, in the second, I left him for another woman, and in the third, we finally got our new home, but I died in it when it burned to the ground. Then just this morning, he had another, where he was driving a truck for a living (not his current profession) and suddenly the road wasn't there and he literally drove off a cliff.
Our marital history is such that he very well could be afraid of losing me. Three years ago I left him because of his drinking, but he got help and we got back together. We are more in love with each other now and very, very rarely argue. We are best friends and I know that neither one of us would want to live without the other. As for our current situation, everything is on a pretty even keel. We're doing well financially and there's no abnormal stress that we're having to deal with. In fact, this is probably the calmest time we've had in our marriage. My first impression was that he's worried about the bottom falling out, since everything's been going so well lately. But I know the nightmares are starting to bother him and I just want to be able to give him some assurance.