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    • I know how he feels
  • From: amylea1370
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  • 1 of 4
  • 4/23/07
Has anyone been so frustrated by being rejected by your child or children because of your ex spouse? Has anyone really heard of Parental Alienation? Do you believe in it? I feel so horrible that Alec Baldwin was driven to the point of complete insanity by his ex wife that he didn't choose the right words to use with his daughter. PAS is a complicated disease of the mind that no one who isn't going through it will ever understand. My ex husband talked 2 of my children into believing I molested them when they were toddlers. I now have no contact with them, they don't want to see me and want nothing to do with me. The alienating parent turns the children around on the targeted parent and allows the children to make decisions only adults should make. My ex husband leaves visiting options "open" for my 13 year old son, the only one he has who will speak to me only if I bend over backwards to make him feel like king of the world.. the 13 year old chooses his friends over visits with me and makes me feel like I'm such an inconvience and why do I want to see him anyway he wonders? The ex also allows his wife to take the role of their mother. They both basically pushed me out of the way and then after 10 years took me to court for child support after his agreement was he would never do that to me as long as I would not do it to him. I still have our older son in my care who is not snowed by all of his father's BS. So.. do I sympathize with Alex Baldwin because he was pushed over the edge? I most certainly do because I'm there. All of you who are calling him a monster.. put yourself in his shoes for five minutes and I'm sure you'll walk away with an attitude adjustment because there are parents out there who like to see their ex spouse suffer and use the kids as major weapons. I'm beat with mine about the head constantly from my ex husband. Matter of fact, my mother is now ailing with cancer and he stated that he hoped she dies from it... of course, he'll never allow the children to see her, he says that they hate her just as much as they hate me. These people are sick and they are raising your future. I'm afraid and you should be too.
  • From: mohair3
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  • 2 of 4
  • 4/23/07
I'm sorry. I so feel for you. Men have devised the term parental alienation because that IS something they are capable of doing. I don't believe that women do that. I'm sorry if that sounds sexist but that's what I believe. Men who would take children away from their mothers are monsters. Did they give birth to them? No. It breaks my heart to hear your story. Alec is not experiencing what you experienced. He is mad because he is not the winner. If he got custody he would get a nanny for her. There's a big difference between you and Alec. He wants you to think he is in agony and tortured but he is not. I can feel the pain in your message. But please don't side with the enemy.
  • From: jfmattaino
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  • 3 of 4
  • 4/23/07
This issue isn't men vs. women, or how one gender is superior to another gender. It is child abuse. It is child abuse to talk to a child the way Alec Baldwin did regardless of what the circumstances are. It would also be child abuse if the mother did it. It is the parents who abuse their children who are monsters. It is also spouses and ex-spouses, male OR female, who abuse one another who are monsters. It is not the "men" in this country, or the "women". I don't approve at ALL of Alec Baldwin and I think he should not only have whatever ties he has towards his daughter severed but he should be arrested for his conduct. I am also not so sure Kim Bassinger is much of a saint in this issue either. Usually it takes two to make a divorce, or a bitter custody battle. Can't we stop being monsters and learn to get along with one another? Men and women were not put on this earth to hate each other. Don't we have enough wars in this world without having to go to war with our spouses?
  • From: brees4nana
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  • 4 of 4
  • 4/23/07
I agree with you 100%. Why was this leaked to the press to start with??? Kim did it to be a B---h! She will one day regret what she has done! I believe what you put out to the universe you receive back to you. Little girls need their dads in their life. Apparently Miss Basinger thinks she can be both mother and father.WRONG!! Alec I hope they get this figure out to YOUR advantage. We all make mistakes and as far as I am conderned your forgiven. NONE OF US ARE PERFECT!!! I am sorry your children have been brainwashed into believeing all that. I hope one day they will learn the truth!!!
 
 
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