I agree with you but to ask him to forgive the person he thinks killed his love one want happen any time soon. I wish that they would understand that O.J. was trialed by a jury of his peers (right) and was aquitted, he didnt make that decision others did, lets give the man a break and let him live his life. Like you said you cant walk around with hatred in your heart that does give the other person power some things you have let go of to have peace.