Questions: Are you happy? Do you love your life? Are you fulfilling your own dreams? You've walked a long hard road with your family intact, but a family of broken individuals is no more intact than a family broken by separation or divorce. You really can't control your family memers, from your spouse to your children. You can only find your own path. Then, if the people you love are willing to change with you, they'll find their own paths as well. There is nothing as beautiful as finding your bliss and then looking over to see your partner and children walking beside you--not because anyone hung on to the group with a death grip, but because love is guiding you all in the same direction. Without your seeking personal integrity and happiness, the odds for your family--any family-won't look good. If you find your path, there's no set of circumstances so rocky your family can't survive teh trip intact.