Have I been that mad when I couldn't speak to my daughter? Sure, and was I as mad as Alec?.. You bet, but I never vented on her like that. It was her mom... He isn't the only one to point a finger at. My Ex would do/say anything to piss me off, which in turn looks good in court, she's not innocent by any means. As for Stossles article talking about deadbeat dad's, I have for the last 14 years complied with the courts and the CSA and I continue to get the short, slipery end of the stick, when a father complies it's a free for all to screw him. My support ends next month, the Fed's took my tax return for what I owed for being out of work, no problem I have a $0 balance, but the state took all of my return too, and the CSA will continue to take from my paycheck until they get the $ from the feds, that takes 6-8 weeks, same for the state, the money I do get back I will not see for 8 weeks, screwed again.... for being compliant... for the last time... I hope.