I too have children whose father is overseas. This is his second tour and yes it is about time that the children are noticed and found at risk and what this does to them. I have found that keeping them busy and occupied with sports and activities helps. I also am using a Psychologist as a family mediator to help me deal with some of the issues our older daughter is having. I pray for the safety and return of our men and women over there. I thank you for what you are doing.