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Hi, I needed a sugestion regarding my marriage.I have been married for 4 years. My husband is good person he encouraged me to go to college, and he has looked after me well. Our marriage was an arranged marriage according to indian culture.Now my husband tells me that he wants to divorce me. He blames that I am not organized, I do not take any responsibility and I do not have intrest in any thing. But, from my point of view I do not have enough time to do all this when i am studying. I cook four meals a day every day even while going to college. He do not help me any of the house hold chores. Every thing , I do manage from vacuming to cleaning the dishes, to washing the clothes. I became preganant after three years of my marriage. My husband troubled me a lot saying that I do not have intrest in having the child. Basically, I am a person who is easy going takes the life as it comes. But, for him every thing should be planned and should go according to it. Recently, his parents came over from india. Now they all blaming me that every thing is my fault and I should try to change my behaviour, attidue and way of speaking. They do tell me that I speak very rude which I feel is normal because I come from different place. Currently, my situation is that my husband wants to divorce me fro this reasons. He does not speak with me . My motherinlaw tells me that I should talk to him even though he does not speak to me. I am confused whether should I move on with this relation ship or should divorce him. Please, give me suggestion.