I'm 52 and my husband is 61, we have been married almost 3 years and together 5 years. It's to the point that we can't do anything together because he is so rude to people. People on the roadway, beware! Heaven help, salespeople. His poor Mother! She like me, cannot say anything or do anything right. I just don't know what to do. He had me quit my job a year ago, so I had to give up my retirement, sold my house, and have nowhere to go. I'm suppose to have sugery within a month and then a 2cnd sugery as soon as I'm healed from the first one. How do I make this work? He controls all the money also.