I've been seeing a very special man for about a year now. he's very kind and supportive. My main concern with our relationship is that he is generall antisocial with others. Also we did not have an instant physical attraction for one another, rather is developed over time. There is another man, who I have long desired, I know there is mutual attraction, but i've never persued it because this man is the love em and leave em type and seems emotionally unavailable. However, I feel like if given the oppurtunity, I would choose him. How can i get over these feelings and appreciate what i have?